Thursday, 10 August 2017

Decluttering the house when you are married to a 'hoarder' and trying to make things a bit tidier!

My husband is a hoarder! I mean not to the extremes that you see on the hoarding programmes on TV but he struggles to let things go. 

The lounge on a tidy day. I try and limit the amount of toys that arrive downstairs although it definitely doesn't look like this every day!

I try and have a good sort out of the house to declutter and to make the house tidier but if I do it whilst the hubs is around then everything that is seen gets questioned. Why do we need to throw that away? Well I might need that at some point. Oh my Dad's sisters mums husband bought me that so I must keep it. 

The kitchen is still in need of completion but I try and keep it clutter free. The children help by eating all of the food so it doesn't clutter up the kitchen!

 There is an excuse for everything and I mean EVERYTHING! So I try and declutter when he isn't here. He doesn't notice that anything has left the house and I never throw or give away anything that I know he needs or has used in the past year or so. 

Last year we decided to clear out the loft. You know the space where everything just gets chucked up there until there is no more space and then you actually wonder what is up there. So up we go and find 8 dining chairs, 8! We didn't need them, we have dining chairs in the dining room around the table. I don't even know how long those chairs had been in there but we had put them there. So they had to go but hubs still questioned whether we should keep them for something. Also in the loft there were the endless amounts of boxes that you keep when you purchase something. They are never needed but you keep them just in case. Off they went. 

Bags full of stuffed toys were next. Teddies and soft toys we had bought over the years and got bagged up a good few years ago because they were just around the house everywhere but unloved by the smalls. So they got put in the loft. I refused to let anyone open the black sacks otherwise people would start claiming teddies from years ago. If they had been in there for 3 years then they weren't needed so they went too. 

Once we had got rid of all of that it was already looking very clear up there. We did have some more stuff to go up there from various rooms in the house. Things that we knew we needed or wanted to keep for now but it would clear up rooms around the house too. 

Clutter is not my friend and I try and declutter wherever I can. Unloved toys and outgrown clothes I try and sell on if I can which brings in a few pennies too. 

The dining room on a clutter free day. These days are rare though! 

It always seems like an endless task and I am always fighting against the clutter and the hoarder and mini hoarders who don't want to let go of things they haven't used in years. 

Decluttering also means the house can start looking neater and tidier but that's another battle I am not winning as yet. We will get there though, in the end, one day, maybe when the kids have moved out! 

If I can get rid of the bike that hasn't been used for nearly 20 years and has followed us around 3 house moves it will be a miracle! 

Wednesday, 9 August 2017

Ikea Reading, a new store in the Ikea family and well worth a visit (or two or three!)

Ikea, it's one of my favourite places. Who doesn't like a trip to Ikea to stock up on household items and meatballs! 

When Ikea decided to open a store half an hour down the road from us in Reading I was so excited. Our usual Ikea outing would be to the Southampton store which was around an hour away and usually a bi-annual event timed with an interior makeover of some sort. Now we pop down the road whenever we can as Ikea is our go to store for any piece of furniture, kitchen essentials or even our latest purchase of our new kitchen which we are extremely pleased with. 

Ikea Reading opened just over a year ago now and I was lucky enough to go and have a sneak peak of the new store before it opened to the public. Ikea Reading is the 19th store in the UK and the first Ikea store to be built for 7 years. It has employed over 370 members of staff with 90% of them coming from the local area. 

With 50 room sets for inspiration, the full 9,500 Ikea product range, restaurant, Swedish food market, free Smaland creche and free parking for 1000 cars across 32,000 sq. metres of store it really needs a visit. 

We've visited quite a few times over the past year and they have always had everything we need. When we recently decided to install a new kitchen we found one in Ikea that we liked. We used the online kitchen planner to help choose the layout and products and then went in store to buy. The colleagues in store were approachable and extremely helpful and helped us out when we were unsure on products that we needed. 

The marketplace is great too. When browsing the room set ups you will need to write down locations for the larger items that you then pick in the self serve furniture area. In the marketplace you can pick up all sorts of household products. From kitchen utensils to towels, rugs to plants, candles to cutlery and even the all important kids rainbow plates and cups! There is everything you need for the home under one roof. 

The younger 2 children love the Smaland creche. You get 45 minutes free childcare which we have found is enough time for a quick look around the room set ups before picking them up to go down into the marketplace. Smaland is staffed by fully trained childcare professionals and there is lots for the children to do. It is run on a first come first serve basis.

The Smaland creche

The Ikea food court with seating for 450 people. 

I think we are due many. many more visits to Ikea Reading and the children keep asking to go back to the Smaland creche. With a stop off in the restaurant for some meatballs and then to the food market for more meatballs to bring home all we need to worry about is whether there is enough room in our car for the shopping!! 

Tuesday, 8 August 2017

The children have grown too quickly & I regret wishing the school holidays away. Enjoy your time together before September arrives.

I know this is a bit rich coming from me as I am usually the one moaning most summer holidays that we have nothing planned and the kids are killing each other and it's raining and they won't stop eating and, and, and..........

A walk in the woods, right on our doorstep.

However it's taken this long but I have finally realised that I spend the summer holidays wishing the time to fly by and yet now the children are growing up too fast and I genuinely miss the time when they are here to annoy me! 

Now they are all at school and I have no babies or toddlers here to fill my time, no nappies to change and no toddler being my shadow all day and I miss those times. School has taken my last baby and so now the holidays seem so much more precious. They are all growing so fast that I seem to blink and miss something (usually a school appointment!!).

Brothers having fun. Fun doesn't have to cost anything.

So this Summer holiday we are going to cherish every moment, every single messy corner of the house where they have tipped out the Lego to make things together, the Play Doh strewn across the dining room table and the endless trips to the shops to stock up on food. 

We will make time for trips to the park come rain or shine, go bowling, swimming, to the cinema, a trip to the zoo, to a theme park, eat out too much and I will try not to moan that I have gone bankrupt in the process. 

A day out with Thomas. 

When they shout 'Mummmmmm' too many times I will try not to get cross with them as I will long for someone to call my name when they are all back at school and my days are too quiet. When the noise level gets a little louder than I would like I will not tell them to be quiet but cherish the sound of small people playing and enjoying each others company (most of the time). 

When I sit and think I need 5 minutes peace I will remember that when they are back at school in September I will have way more than 5 minutes peace each week and to not think that they are just being annoying even if I feel a slight headache coming on. 

A drive into Windsor and a long walk up the Long Walk to Windsor Castle.

So please don't wish the holidays away. Fill the days with fun, get out of the house whenever you can even if it's just a walk to the park. Enjoy a family holiday away, days out and as much fun as is possible in the time that we have.

Don't wish for the children to be quiet or for back to school to hurry up because before long they will have grown and flown and your days will be even quieter than you could have ever imagined and it won't seem as wonderful as you thought it would be. 

Monday, 7 August 2017

A day out in London for 'me time'. My first Irregular Choice purchase & some Selfridges exclusive Krispy Kremes too.

A few weeks ago myself and the bestie hit London for a day out and some time out from the kiddies. Leaving the Things in the hubby's quite capable hands I jumped aboard a, later than expected, train and headed to meet the bestie in London. 

Every once in a while we make sure we book in a Sunday date to go out together as we both need it/deserve it/need time to get away and possibly have a rant at each other over lunch if need be too! Having 9 children between us there is usually lots of talk about them, some good and some not so but mostly good! However I do try and keep kid talk to a minimum although it doesn't always work. 

Our most recent trip into London was because I was on a mission. I was looking to make my first ever purchase of Irregular Choice shoes so we planned to hit Carnaby Street first. However by the time we got there it was lunch time already and we both needed to eat so my purchase had to wait a bit longer whilst we searched out somewhere to get some yummy food and we weren't disappointed. 

We searched out Kingly Court, somewhere the bestie had eaten previously, and there were so many restaurants to choose from. After a quick look around at various different menus we opted for a Jamaican restaurant called The Rum Kitchen. The food was lovely and the view out from the restaurant was gorgeous, it was a particularly lovely July day too. 

The view from The Rum Kitchen restaurant in Kingly Court. It was a lovely warm day and we sat looking out over the food court. 

After our lunch of halloumi and mushroom burger, seasoned fries and sweetcorn fritters we were fully fuelled and ready for shoe shopping. 

The Irregular Choice shop wasn't far from the restaurant and we were soon in shoe heaven with sooooo many gorgeous shoes to choose from. I was looking for something for an upcoming wedding but that I would wear more than just the once! We had a good look around before deciding and it wasn't easy. The shop is bright, colourful and stocked full of shoes in lots of different styles and patterns.  After a couple of circuits of the shop and picking up various different shoes I chose the gorgeous Kanjanka style in blue. I could have left the shop with a few more pairs but I behaved.

My first Irregular Choice purchase. Kanjanka style in blue. 

 After our fun in shoe heaven we decided to head to Selfridges as we knew there were some scrummy looking Selfridges exclusive Krispy Kreme doughnuts that needed our attention! I do love taking a look around Selfridges food hall. The hubby wants to visit the Oyster and Champagne bar there but I was quite happy with all of the cake, chocolates and doughnuts on offer. I had a taster of some white chocolate with pistachio and sea salt with gold on the top, it was extremely scrummy and I should have treated myself (even after the shoe purchase!) but I didn't. 

Selfridges exclusive Krispy Kreme doughnuts. On the left is the Champagne Touch and on the right is the Magic Unicorn. 

The Krispy Kreme counter awaited and I purchased half a dozen of their exclusive to Selfridges doughnuts. These looked special, I love a Krispy Kreme doughnut anyway but these were even better. With magic unicorn, Champagne touch and Red Berry Drizzle amongst others to choose from I was in doughnut heaven. Doughnuts bought we decided to head back towards home. 

With cake and shoes in hand we had had a lovely day and definitely one that needs repeating.  We could try a different restaurant in Kingly Court, buy more shoes, more doughnuts and maybe fit in a trip to the theatre too. 

Some gorgeous Wimbledon themed cakes I spotted in Selfridges food hall. I did purchase the tennis racket cupcake.

Here's to more Sundays with the bestie wherever they may take us!